Showing posts with label Sodality of Mary. Show all posts
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Friday, June 19, 2020

SACRED HEART TALK 2020: A Heart that Mirrors God (1)



Welcome to the first of three, short reflections concerning the Sacred Heart.

I’d like to begin by recalling why the Sacred Heart of Jesus – and when I speak of the Heart of Christ, I also infer the Heart of Mary for the two Hearts are as one – why it’s of such importance by sharing some words by the Orthodox theologian, Archbishop. Kalistos Ware:

‘The heart, it has been said, is the primary organ of our being, the point of convergence between mind and matter, the centre alike of our physical constitution and our psychic and spiritual structure.  Since the heart has this twofold aspect, at once visible and invisible, prayer of the heart is prayer of body as well as soul: only if it includes the body can it be truly prayer of the whole person. A human being, in the biblical view, is a psychosomatic totality — not a soul imprisoned in a body and seeking to escape, but an integral unity of the two. The body is not just an obstacle to be overcome, a lump of matter to be ignored, but it has a positive part to play in the spiritual life and it is endowed with energies that can be harnessed for the work of prayer.’

Recently, I came across a small book called, ‘The Sacred Heart of the World’, written by David Richo and published in 2007.  Two years before, he writes, he had received the graces needed to vow to make a contribution to devotion to the Sacred Heart: this book is the consequence.  In reading it I’ve realised I’d found the book I would like to have written!  David is a psychotherapist, mindfulness teacher and retreat leader in California and his book does what it says on the cover – restores mystical devotion to our spiritual life – so I’d like to use these four sessions to share some of his insights. 

He begins by inviting us to consider the universal context in which the Sacred Heart needs to be set.  Right at the beginning he writes: (p.2): …  This clearly reveals the way the Sacred Heart isn’t just a rather saccharine, individualistic devotion, but concerns the essence of our humanity.  (p.3) … It also reveals, of course, that the nature of God is love: (p.6, 7, 9)

It was inside us because God breathed his Spirit into Adams nostrils – the heart of God is a Trinity of Love which flows out and enfolds all things: O then, let my heart awake to your breath within me!  There, where mind sinks into the depths of God, there are rivers of love flowing from the Heart!  ‘In Sufi tradition’, writes Richo, ‘The heart is eternity, light, and divinity.  It is the centre of consciousness and the vehicle by which God sees us.  God breathing life into Adam means that a heart was given to him.’ (p.14)  Later, in sharing some words of Jung, he says that ‘The heart mirrors the psyche itself, which includes both our personal experience and the heritage of wisdom of the entire human collective that keeps stirring in all of us.’ (p.16)

Finally, he writes of the way that the Sacred Heart is a universal symbol which is in everybody's soul.  Yet it’s not only a symbol, a word meaning password in Greek, it’s also a passport to participation in what it signifies.  The sacramental nature of the Sacred Heart contains the power to awaken spiritual truths in us and to give us an appetite for it.  The Heart of Jesus is indeed the centre of the mystical body of humanity and the universe. 

To end this session, I’ll share words from a Sioux Indian which he quotes; ‘the heart is a sanctuary at the centre of which is a little space wherein the Great Spirit abides.’  Hearing them, I was immediately remined of something Thomas Merton wrote in Conjectures of a Guilty Bystander’:

‘At the centre of our being is a point of nothingness which is untouched by sin and by illusion, a point of truth, a point or spark which belongs entirely to God, which is never at our disposal, from which God disposes our lives, which is inaccessible to the fantasies of our own mind or the brutalities of our own will.  This little point of nothingness and of absolute poverty is the pure glory of God in us.  It is, so to speak, His name written in us…  It is like a pure diamond, blazing with the invisible light of heaven.  It is in everybody, and if we could see it we would see those billions of points of light coming together in the face and blaze of a sun that would make all the darkness and cruelty of life vanish completely.  I have no program for this seeing; is it only given.  But the Gate of Heaven is everywhere.’ 

SACRED HEART TALK 2020: The Heart of the Sacrament (2)



Welcome to this second talk exploring aspects of devotion to the Sacred Heart which are being given in June, the month traditionally concerned with this devotion. 

As I mentioned in the first talk, the Sacred Heart isn’t a devotion with which many Anglican’s are familiar, even though it was beginning to influence the church in Britain – and throughout Europe – long before the Reformation.  For example, St. Anselm, the 11th cent Archbishop of Canterbury, wrote ‘The opening of the side of Christ reveals the riches of his love, the love of his heart for us’.  And Dame Julian of Norwich in the 15th century wrote in Ch. 24 of 'Revelations of Divine Love:' ‘Then our Lord looked into his side and rejoiced.  By this sweet look he had me gaze within his wound; he showed me a fair, delectable place, large enough for all humanity that should be saved to rest in peace and love.  And therewith he had me recall his dear, worthy blood and precious water, which he did pour out for love, and he showed me his blissful heart.’ 

But this wonderful river of affective devotion, devotion concerns the stirring of our emotions to help deepen our desire for God, was blocked at the Reformation and didn’t re-emerge until John Wesley began to speak from a heart warmed by Christ.  Later, at the end of the 19th century, a few men came together to form the Society of Divine Compassion – another way of referring to the Sacred Heart.  It’s clear from the writings of one of them, Fr. Andrew, that he had a deep devotion to the Heart of Jesus  which we hear in his poem, Sacre Coeur:

Dear Heart, Who in Thy tender love didst come
Not from some cavernous and vast womb
Of cold and passionless eternity,
But didst in human wise take flesh for me
Of sweet St Mary's fair virginity,
and made ‘midst men Thy home.
Help me to see the greatest in the least,
The whole of life is one great Eucharist;
in common ways and simple loyalties
To find hid treasure of high sanctities,
as Love links symbols to realities
in Thy blest altar Feast.

THE FEAST
Perhaps Fr. Andrew felt that to call this emerging community the ‘Society of the Sacred Heart’ might be too much for most Anglicans!  But the Sacred Heart was one of their two dedications – the other being our Lady – and reflected their eventual choice of name ‘Divine Compassion’.  That was what these men, inspired by St. Francis of Assisi, wanted the people amongst whom they ministered to experience – the compassionate, Heart of Jesus. 

The Society was never large and it’s last member died in 1952, but it did remarkable work not only in ministering in the slums of Plaistow but also in helping establish the Hospital and Homes of St. Giles for Lepers in East Hanningfield, Essex in 1914.   In recognition of the importance of SDC the revised Daily Office Book of the Society of St. Francis, published in 1992, named the Friday of the week following Corpus Christi, ‘The Divine Compassion of Christ’ and allowed it to be kept as a Feast.  That day (today), of course, is recognised as the Feast of the Sacred Heart of Jesus in the Catholic Church.  ‘The Divine Compassion’ also appeared in Celebrating Common Prayer, but when the Liturgical Commission published ‘Comm. Worship’ they dropped it from the Calendar.  I assume that was because it sounded too ‘Romish’ and I’m unsure if it appears in any of the multitude of Anglican service books which have appeared since. I don’t think it’s recognised in the calendar of the Episcopal Church, but I’d be interested to know if it’s officially recognised anywhere in the Anglican Communion.

Pope Pius IX had made the Feast of the Sacred Heart part of the general Calendar of the Church in 1856 but the first Office and Mass were composed by St. John Eudes, but the institution of the Feast was a result of the appearances of our Lord to St. Margaret Mary Alacoque in 1673.  During one of them, Jesus had said to her: "I promise you in the excessive mercy of my Heart that my all-powerful love will grant to all those who receive Holy Communion on the First Fridays in nine consecutive months the grace of final perseverance; they shall not die in my disgrace, nor without receiving their sacraments. My divine Heart shall be their safe refuge in this last moment."

SACRED HEART AND CHURCH OF ENGLAND
Such sentiments may have come from the lips of our Saviour, but it appears that they don’t resonate with many Anglicans …  Talk about the ‘grace’ which comes from receiving the Body and Blood of Christ in Holy Communion, the need to prepare yourself, when necessary, by making your confession and so on seems not only foreign but, these days, unnecessary. 

Yet it’s part of that affective piety which seeks to involve the emotions to deepen devotion to the physicality of Christ and the saints, something which seems to have died in England with the Reformation and has hardly re-appeared.  Devotions concerning Mary, the Blessed Sacrament and Stations of the Cross may have gained a toe-hold, but the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary (and they are both as one) have hardly any place.   And that is in spite of the way we know one of the most important teachings of Christianity concerns the love of God.  We may talk about it and preach about it, but we are an Incarnational, sacramental people – matter matters – and the image of the Sacred Heart reveals profound aspects of Godly love and the cost God in Jesus was prepared to pay to reveal the depths of his love, something I want to look at in the third and final talk . 

This piety towards the Sacred Heart isn’t just so we can feel better about ourselves or one intended to give us a spiritual ‘boost’, which is what some people say they get from going to a service, but to effect a change in our life.  Devotion to the Sacred Heart is intimately connected with personal conversion – with our metanoia.  This is brought out in another of the apparitions to Margaret Mary:

“Behold this Heart which has so loved human beings that it has spared nothing, even to exhausting and consuming itself, in order to give them proof of its love, and in return I received from the greater number nothing but ingratitude, contempt, irreverence, sacrilege,  and coldness towards the Sacrament of my love.” 

SACRED HEART AND THE BLESSED SACRAMENT
That final phrase, ‘the Sacrament of my love’, is something we ought to ponder – it reveals the intimate connection between the Sacred Heart and the Blessed Sacrament.   It’s a phrase which highlights the point–counterpoint of Jesus’ wooing us with his love: we reject him and then he loves us even more ardently.  This is a powerful affirmation of the unconditionality of God’s limitless love, a love that doesn’t depend our worthiness or actions.  A love which, the Collect for the Sodality of Mary, Mother of Priests compares with an ocean.

That was a term used by the Jesuit, St. Claude de la Colombiere, who was of immense help to St Margaret Mary: ocean of mercy found in the Heart of Jesus in also present in the Eucharist.  There were three occasions when St. Margaret Mary spoke of this love revealed through the Sacred Heart of the Eucharist, revelations which occurred whilst St. Margaret Mary was meditating before the Blessed Sacrament.  These point, in a very striking way, to the fact that God longs for us to let our love for him flow.  Both the Sacred Heart and the Eucharist reveal that ‘love was his meaning’ and that we were made out of love, for love.  One reflects the other and both are the consequence of the Incarnation – at the centre of the Sacrament in which the Word of God is present lies the Sacred Heart wanting to engage with ours.  As someone pointed out: the ‘so’ in ‘God so loved the world …’ is the Sacred Heart of Jesus. 

As many mystics realised, this holy courtship happens within us and that is why our response is described in their visions as an awakening to our true nature, a realisation of God within.   In that moment our solitary and self-sufficient ego turns out to be simply a much-too-limited identity.  We find our heart widens with this universal compassion found in the Heart of Christ: made by a God who is love, we are never more human than when we are expressing love – and both the Sacred Heart and the Blessed Sacrament make clear the nature of Godly love.  

That’s why those ordained to ministry need to have the Heart of Jesus – why they need to make sure they’re constantly returning to this source of the love they proclaim in word and deed.   Every priest needs, in a real way, to be a priest of the Sacred Heart, a priest of Divine Compassion, for it is Compassion which lies in the depths of the Sacred Heart – indeed, is the way in which that Heart is to be understood.  We can always be present to His compassion when we come before Him in the Blessed Sacrament. 

So people have longed to look upon that loving compassion and can do so when the Sacrament is exposed to our gaze on the altar: there we can be present to Him as He is present to us.  I know it’s unlikely to happen, but I have always thought how wonderful it would be if every church offered times when the Blessed Sacrament was shown, so anyone could sit or kneel in prayer in His Presence. Couldn’t churches consider helping people come and adore Him who longed – and longs – to be with us?  There we can talk with Him or just rest with Him – as did St. Margaret Mary – and know that He is fully present to all who come to Him.  Or, as someone I know does, could simply curl up before Him who opens His Heart to us in the Sacrament of Divine Love.

But even if we cannot find an open church where the brilliance of the Host shines out to our gaze, we can always take Him with us in the tabernacle of our heart for, as St Francis of Assisi wrote in his Rule of 1221: ‘We should make a dwelling-place within ourselves where He can stay, He who is the Lord God Almighty, Father, Son and Holy Spirit.’  The Sacred Heart of the Blessed Sacrament invites us to make our heart’s like His.

Recently someone wrote to me about the way she realised her heart was growing harder:  ‘About six years ago I became troubled that my heart was becoming like stone, and I made a conscious choice to change this situation.  I knew that only God could help me on this one, and He did.’  She went on to observe: ‘I’ve noticed that, as some people get older, they become increasingly bitter and resentful about what life hurls at them.  They may even choose to have hatred running in their lives.  It sort of energises them and keeps them going.’


I had noticed something similar in some people’s attitudes towards those of other nationalities or ethnicities – and especially towards refugees and immigrants – following Brexit, and we’re only too conscious of this in the recent Black Lives Matter protests.  And I reflected on something the Holy Father wrote last year: “Jesus’ only judgement” he said, “is one filled with mercy and compassion.”   Yet re-making one’s heart isn’t easy, which is why the need to do so lies at the heart of ours and every faith.   As one great Scottish evangelist wrote: ‘To refuse to be continuously converted puts a stumbling block in the growth of our spiritual life. There are areas of self-will in our lives where our pride pours contempt on the throne of God and says, “I won’t submit.”


CONCLUSION
In the end, devotion to the Sacred Heart is simply about making the heart, the centre of our being, like Christ’s.   Nurturing within ourselves His love and compassion which is why the fact that the Sacred Heart has never had a place in the life of the Church of England is a cause for great sadness, for it is our loss.   We may or may not have celebrated the Feast today (maybe, next year?!) but the reality of the Divine Compassion of Jesus is something we need to desire to flow in our hearts and be lived out in our lives.  This ought not to be an optional celebration for catholic’s ‘who like that sort of thing’ but one which is of obligation. 

We are obligated to the Sacred Heart – made in the image of God we are not completely human – we don’t reflect what being human is all about – until our heart is like the Heart of Jesus – and Mary.  We will find ourselves in the Sacred Heart, know ourselves there, and know that the suffering we might experience as we seek to love as He does takes us more deeply into His Heart.

O Jesu, O Sacred Heart,
burning with Divine love
    send into my heart
a spark of that fire
which burneth in thee;
    excite in me a burning and a flaming spirit;
    impress upon me
the seal of thy Love
that I may worthily before thy work

Prayer from A Pilgrim’s Book of Prayers, Fr. Gilbert Shaw, p. 26

Thursday, May 28, 2015

SERMON for the proposed SODALITY OF MARY, MOTHER OF PRIESTS

Preached at the Church of S. Saviour, Pimlico
on the Feast of
S. AUGUSTINE of CANTERBURY

WEDNESDAY, MAY 27th, 2015
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Holiness on the head,
Light and perfections on the breast,
Harmonious bells below, raising the dead
To lead them unto life and rest:
Thus are true Aarons drest.’

X

INTRODUCTION
It was the summer of ‘65.  The Rolling Stones were top of the pops and the ‘Sound of Music’ had just been released to a rapturous audience: I was 19, newly confirmed, discovering the glories of Anglo-Catholicism and parties in Pimlico.  I had joined the Society of Mary, Confraternity of the Blessed Sacrament and Guild of All Souls.  I would even go on to join the League of Anglican Loyalists….  Ah, those were the waking days When Faith was taught and fanned to a golden blaze.

Somehow I was led to read Henry Morton Robinson’s, ‘The Cardinal’ and to say that I was inspired would be an understatement, for the story of Stephen Fermoyle’s vocation awoke the seed of my own.  Many years later I discovered that St. Ignatius Loyola had had a similar experience when first reading the lives of Francis and Dominic: “If they can do such things”, he thought’ “so can I!”  Thus began his conversion and so began my sense of calling to the priesthood.  You’ll have your own story and I ask your indulgence as I share some of my reflections on this matter of priestly spirituality.

Like Fr. Richard many of us have probably been inspired by the heroic lives of priests we have known or read about and I wonder if there is one in particular who has spoken to you?  If so my guess is that it is not just what they have done – few are inspired by overworking priests! – but the way they did it; something about the quality of his or her holiness that has touched you.  Something about the way God was revealed in their very humanity.  George Herbert’s great poem, Aaron, the opening of which I quoted, is a reminder that it is from the totality of our humanity – our perfections and imperfections – that we embark on the way which leads to holiness.  Herbert makes use of the external vesting of a priest to point out that it’s our inner life which needs to be clothed in Christ.  His poem reminds me of the importance of the Vesting Prayers; but is mostly a reminder that whilst I may wear the biretta, it is Christ who is my true head. 

But back, for a moment, to this matter of who inspires us.

INSPIRED BY THE LIFE OF HEROES OF OUR FAITH
In his talk to the Southwark Chapter of SCP, which led to today’s meeting, Fr. Richard said:  “I am an Anglo-Catholic.  That is to say I am an Anglican who looks to the great heroes of our faith in the Oxford movement and the ritualist pioneers of the late 19th and early 20th century.”  It was those ‘great heroes of our faith’ who, themselves, were inspired by the example of earlier priests not least S. Vincent de Paul, the great Apostle of Charity.  The founders of the Society of the Holy Cross looked to the life of Vincent and it is about one of their first members, Fr. Stanton, that I want to draw your attention.


ARTHUR STANTON

Arthur Henry Stanton was born in 1839 and died in 1913. Priested at the age of 25 he spent his entire ministry – almost fifty years – as a curate at S. Alban’s, Holborn and thousands lined the route of his funeral procession from Holborn to the Necropolis Station at Waterloo.  I first heard his name mentioned when Richard Holloway quoted some words of Fr. Stanton during his Address to the Catholic Renewal Conference in 1978: “When you’re priests,” Stanton said to a group of ordinands, “tell your people to love the Lord Jesus.  Don’t tell them how to be Church of England: tell them to love the Lord Jesus”.

It has been said that Jesus and Mary were the two loves of his life and he saw Catholic faith and practice as the ‘home’ in which they dwelt.  And in that home his focus was on the Mass and Penance.  In a letter to his mother he wrote:

“I am a Catholic in heart, longings and hopes.  Catholics believe, as they believe in their God, that Jesus Christ is present on His Altar in the Holy Sacrament. 

A Catholic priest believes that he holds between his hands the Bread of Life; as St. John says he handled the Word of Life with his hands.  I hold the doctrine of the Real Presence dearer than life.  As I hope for salvation I would rather be hacked to pieces than omit adoring my God in the Sacrament."

Strong words!  Yet Stanton is overshadowed by the likes of Mackonochie and Tooth, and SSC chose Fr. Lowder as one of its Patron Saints.  But, for me, Arthur Stanton is a model for the faithful catholic priest whose eye is set on Jesus and whose heart is given to His Divine Compassion. 

PRIESTHOOD AND CALLING
Of course, not all of us are involved in parish ministry but every priest is called to seek to be formed in the likeness of Christ.  To be given to His love for us and for all people.  That is our primary calling.  Yet too often I listen to priests who have become over-identified with their role and forgotten to remember that, before all else, we are commanded to “love the Lord ()our God with all ()our heart, and with all ()our soul, and with all ()our strength, and with all ()our mind” (Lk.10:27).  And then to love our neighbour as our-self.

As priests we are primarily called to be God’s lovers.  That must be the focus of our lives.  Not parishes, schools or cathedrals or whatever.  They are the context.  But to love God.  In a meditation on the Trinity, the Franciscan Richard Rohr has said:    

‘The Mystery of (the) Trinity invites us into full participation with God, a flow, a relationship, a waterwheel of always outpouring love.  Trinity basically says that God is a verb much more than a noun. 

Some Christian mystics taught that all of creation is being taken back into this flow of eternal life, almost as if we are a "Fourth Person" of the Eternal Flow of God or, as Jesus put it, "so that where I am you also may be" (John 14:3).

So our primary calling is into this dynamic relationship with God, and it is from that encounter we discover our true vocation.  I think Fr. Stanton found his in being, in a real sense, ‘in Jesus’ and just as many religious take a dedication name that describes their personal vocation, ‘of Jesus and Mary’ might describe Arthur Stanton just as ‘of the Cross’ describes a certain St. John.   My next thought, then, is what might your ‘personal vocation’ be and how might you nurture that and live it out? 

MARY AND THE PRIESTHOOD
Now whilst I haven’t been able to find anything that Fr. Stanton wrote about devotion to Mary it is clear that awareness of her place in the life of the Church was developing in the mid-nineteenth century.  In 1848 the Community of St. Mary the Virgin had been founded by Fr. Butler and when SSC was instituted seven years later they made devotion to her part of their Rule. 

In a reflection on our Lady and the priesthood in 2009 Pope Benedict spoke of Jesus’ commendation of His Mother to S. John and pointed out that the English translation of the text ‘And from that hour the disciple took her into his own home’ has a far deeper and richer meaning in Greek.  It can be translated as he ‘took Mary into his inner life, his inner being’.  The Holy Father went on to say: “To take Mary with one means to introduce her into the dynamism of one's own entire existence – it is not something external – and into all that constitutes the horizon of one's own apostolate.” 

So if Mary is to inspire us then it cannot be simply to offer her more devotion, as right as that may be, but to discover a way of allowing her charism to infuse ours.  To trust, to listen and to wait as we, like her, seek to do God’s will for, as Pope Francis has said: ‘Mary is God’s welcomer’. 

PRIESTHOOD AND SPIRITUALITY
One thing that’s clear about the early pioneers of the Catholic revival is their commitment to the development of the spiritual life.  In preparing this address I found myself referring time and time again to the founding of SSC in 1855 not least because their first stated object is the sanctification of their members.  And to that end, amongst other things, SSC was responsible for the development of the Retreat movement in the Church of England. 

But I have a sense that many of us find ourselves, whether by circumstance, inclination or a toxic mix of the two, more Martha’s than Mary’s.  

Whilst we might long for an end to interminable meetings and for a bit more ‘peace and quiet’ I wonder if our personal Rule of Life includes times of meditation or retreat and the devotional study of the scriptures.  Here the dynamic of Mary’s silence and centring on the Word needs to inform us for the nature of our spiritual life will direct everything we do.  As Br. Bernard SSF used to say, “Get it right with God, first, brother.  The rest will fall in place.”

Now by ‘spiritual life’ I don’t mean increasing the number of devotions we offer.  S. John Cassian points out that: ‘Fasting, vigils, the study of scripture, renouncing possessions and the world – these are means not the end.  Perfection is not found in them, but through them.  It is pointless to boast about such practices when we have not achieved the love of God and our fellow humans.’  I’m also minded of the Principles of the Society of S. Francis which still resonate for me when they say that ‘corporate worship is not a substitute for the quiet communion of the individual soul with God’ (Day 17)

Having said that I wonder what spiritual exercises help you love God more fully and freely?  I recall at the SCP Conference in Exeter being reminded that, as Catholics, we had a treasury of devotion which we could use, and we needed to make use of it for ourselves and not just for the benefit of our ministries.   And that reflection led me to introduce a lot of ‘Fresh Expressions’ – contemplative expressions – into my parish: a Rosary group, Saturday Evening Vigil Mass and Holy Hour.  Few, if any, came but they were important times for me.  They helped me in my relationship with God. 

So if we really believe in the value of Catholic practices, then we will be doing just that – practising them!

And there is one other practice I would commend: praying for the departed.  Maybe the fact that I’ve almost reached threescore years and ten gives me a particular interest in remembering those who have gone before us!  But I was always taught that membership of any Catholic society does not end at death.  Yet not all publish an Obit list so I am moved by the way the Rule of SSC states that members ‘shall understand prayer for the dead as an act of charity to assist those who have died on their pilgrim way into the peace of God’s Kingdom, so that the whole world might become a new creation.’ (8) 

Don’t let’s forget departed members but pray for them on their anniversaries.  After all, we shall all benefit in the end…

MISSION
Today, of course, we meet on this Feast of S. Augustine of Canterbury and our gospel reading concerns the mission of the seventy.  As Fr. Clive wrote: ‘In every generation the Spirit of God renews and revives the church, so that the ‘missio dei’ …  might most effectively engage afresh for a new generation, in different circumstances and with new challenges.’ So, in contemplating a new movement for priests we cannot ignore evangelisation.  To be lovers of God and of our neighbour, no matter how hard that may be. 

Fr. Stanton was a keen supporter of the early Christian Socialist Movement, regarding it as the political expression of the Incarnation, and whilst we may have moved on from the social conditions of those19th and early 20th century slum parishes, which gave rise to those stirring words of Bp. Frank Weston to the Anglo-Catholic Congress of 1923, as Gaudiem et Spes states: "the Church . . . travels the same journey as all humanity and shares the same earthly lot with the world: she is to be a leaven and, as it were, the soul of human society in its renewal by Christ and transformation into the family of God."

YOU SHALL LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOUR AS YOURSELF
But thoughts about Catholic practices and talk about Mission can blind us to the fact that we also need also to love and care for those around us – those to whom we are committed by natural ties of love and friendship – and our-selves.  I realise that Fr. Stanton and many of those early Anglo-Catholic priests were single or celibate and recognise there’s been a tendency for priestly spirituality to be predicated towards such states but where might that leave the married or partnered priest?  Where does this call to seek God leave our human loves?  

If we are married or partnered then those who love us can sometimes feel they play second – or third – fiddle to God and the Church.   There’s a danger that some aspects of spirituality seem to bypass human love and move directly to God, and whilst there are some who have such a personal, solitary calling to make that into a general principal would seem to trivialise the Incarnation.   In that context I find it interesting that in the early days of SSC it was found necessary to form three distinct Rules: the White Rule for celibates; the Red for those who were single or married, and a Green Rule, although I haven’t been able to find out anything about that.  Now, of course, there is a separate community for celibate priests, the Company of Mission Priests.  But it, and the Oratory of the Good Shepherd founded in the year of Fr. Stanton’s death, is for men only. 

I also recall that S. Francis developed three Orders for those who were attracted by his spirituality and if there is to be a new Sodality for Priests, then will it be a case that ‘one size fits all’, or might there need to be a variety of ways of belonging? 

Finally yet, perhaps, most importantly any true Catholic spirituality will help us love ourselves.  Too often in the past Rules of Life were overly active – they could sound like a list of New Year’s Resolutions rather than a means whereby we sought to nurture God’s love for us.  There is a difference between pious religious practices and a healthy spirituality.  To quote again from the Franciscan Principles: ‘The witness of life is more eloquent than that of words’ and any Rule needs to address the whole person. 

Our Rule, then, needs to acknowledge our need for rest and refreshment and should positively encourage us to take time out and create space for our-selves to flourish.  As the Rule for a New Brother states: ‘A spiritual rule wants to offer an open and free space within and among us where God can touch us with Gods loving presence.  It wants to make it possible for us not so much to find God, as to be directed by God; not so much to love God but to be loved by God.’ (Foreword p.8)

CONCLUSION
Like Herbert and Ignatius Loyola we are called to let Jesus flow into who we are and to allow who we are to be clothed in Him. 
Christ is my only head,
My alone onely heart and brest,
My only musick, striking me ev’n dead;
That to the old man I may rest
And in him new drest.
We need the heroes of our Faith to inspire us in our own calling but we also need to listen, deeply, to our personal vocation just as Mary listened to God and found hers.  And this needs to be set in the context of God’s mission – a mission which is known as we encounter God and allow ourselves to be changed by God’s desire for at-one-ness with all things: ‘from glory to glory’.  

However our priesthood is expressed, whether in parish or school, with the military or in a hospital, we are called to ‘live intensely’.  To ‘believe that we are consecrated to give our wills to Jesus, and in giving our wills to lay ourselves body and soul in his hands that he may do what he will with us.  … For’ as Bp. Weston said, ‘the Christ of Calvary calls us’.

X

V. I will feast the souls of my priests with abundance. [Alleluia.]
R. And my people shall be satisfied with my goodness. [Alleluia.]

Father,
in your love for us you chose Mary to be the Mother of your Son,
the first to welcome Him into her heart and bring Him forth for a waiting world.
Grant us such a measure of her grace as to be truly devoted to your Word.
By the loving intercession of Our Lady, reconsecrate us each day
and by the guidance of the Holy Spirit bring us, your pilgrim priests,
to be set forth upon the ocean of light which is the Trinity,
Father, Son and Holy Spirit.
Amen